Monday, March 7, 2011

False Twin Flames

Much as been written about twin flame relationships in the past several years. As we reach the pinnacle point of the great cosmic change, it is imperative that we are well informed about the opposing forces...in this instance, the false twin flame.


The false twin relationships will manifest itself in very similar qualities of the true flame connection. Why is this? The false energy has not yet mastered within themselves the higher levels of consciousness and self reflection that a true twin has. So instead of doing the difficult emotional inner work, the false twin will attach themselves to the more evolved twin and absorb their energy and essence as their own. Whether done on a subconscious level or not, this type of energy exchange is very dangerous for the true twin.


The false twin will mirror qualities of a true twins in order to gain the level of control needed to maintain the connection. DISTANCE is the key to this type of manipulation. Whether geographically or emotionally, this type of energy cannot not be maintained in the LIGHT. (ie., up close and personal) so it will create distractions and diversions until the time comes to feed. Yes, I said feed. Feed off the true twin. Sort of like refueling your car at a gas station. But in this case, the false twin is siphoning your fuel, not adding





Once the false twin feels that they have gotten what they needed from you, they soon  have little or no time for you. They become irritated quickly and visibly withdrawn. They aren't able to continue the flow of exchange because the energy they claim as their own is borrowed from others. From you.


In the process you don't know which way to go. Your heart tells you that this person is different, and there were so many signs telling you they were "the one" You shared similar childhoods, interests, goals, dreams. No one understands you the way they did.
The next stage is you begin to blame yourself for the relationship going south. You may apologize often and always play the role of peacemaker. The false twin does not want to make peace with you.


 They operate in the shadows. Your unawareness of this fact keeps you in the cycle of their purpose. You engage in their drama and believe that it is Love that is motivating you.
If a false twin is extremely disconnected from their own soul then they can become quite violent psychically and energetically. They will spiritually try to destroy what the true twin has worked dilegently to heal while at the same time wearing a mask of light in the outer world. The false twin can go undetected until they come across someone with knowledge of their game plan or someone who is highly sensitive to energies.
False Twins can strengthen themselves energetically at the expense of a true twins life. Which would manifest outwardly as illness, job loss, depression, even death. Please be informed about false twins as well as real twin flame connections.


Here are some signs you may know a false twin (or energy stealer):


*you obsess/daydream about them
*overpowering sexual energy exchange
*feel anxious or nervous talking to them on phone, by email, or in person
*they come into your dreams often (usually comes with messages to pay attention to)
*they create distance between you by never being fully available or responsible for actions
*controlling and manipulation tactics
*won't open up but will draw information out of you
*they get angry when you pull away or have a sense of your own power
*they tend to disappear or show no real excitement when you achieve success
*intense jealousy and or will try to make you jealous by talking of other relationships they've had
*confusion. unable to make clear choices or decisions all of the sudden
*unexplained series of bad luck
*other areas of your life not flowing as well as before they came into your life
*feeling disoriented, emotionally drained, tired, or worried for no reason when you are in their company or think of them
*they will cuddle you to sleep then distance themselves. this is when the feeding occurs. a true twin does not require this physical closeness as the only way to connect
*they cannot look you in the eyes for extended time or will give a look of suspicion
*they manipulate your time by being late, cancelling plans at last moment, saying they will call and don't, etc., this is done to get your reaction! your energy...
*they blame you for your their behavior or bring up something in the past you may have done to use as leverage
*they rarely apologize or give clear definite responses to your questions and concerns
*they will show up again the moment you let them go


 How to Protect and Clear Yourself from a False Twin Invasion


*montior your thoughts and pay close attention to not engaging in destructive behavior
*ask the white or golden light to surround you completely
*ask your higher self/soul to be present in your awareness and give you truthful information about the person in which you are involved
*LISTEN to dreams, intuition, messages, and guidance from those you ask for answers
*get rid of anything linked to said person. pictures, emails, text, notes, etc.,
*understand that when you drink or use drugs you allow yourself to become open to negative energies. in your choice to engage, just be aware of this potential and protect/shield yourself reguarly
*use sage, candles, prayer, visualizations, affirmations, or anything else that feels comfortable for you and have a releasement ceremony. invite friends or go at it alone. just make sure to put as much time, energy, and passion into it as they have in stealing your power.
*dance, write, play, create! do something fun and positive as a new source of energy release.  
*when they come into your thoughts (which will intensify sometimes for months or even years) just relax and send them back to their highest self and the creator. don't fool yourself into thinking this means you are meant to be together. it is them recognizing your energy is gone and they want it back!! not because they truly miss and care for you.
*MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE*
really listen to your Intuition. It will always give you the TRUTH, even when your ego has you to beleive you want the person more than anything else. Your intution will ALWAYS shine the light of TRUTH upon you.


additional resources that you may find helpful:


http://www.kktanhp.com/twin_souls.htm


http://www.soulsinbloom.com/Twin%20Flame%20Relationships1.htm


http://www.lightandlovereiki.com/meditation/eggshell_technique_meditation.html

80 comments:

  1. I think all that is very true. Will b waiting on next bit of writing u put out :)

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  2. I'm confused. How does this make one a false twin flame? If your intuition tells you that they are one, isn't that your answer? What makes one a "true twin flame"? More knowledge of their true self? If certain things in the relationship made negative emotions manifest within you, aren't these signs that BOTH of you still have more growing to do before you can each experience divine, unconditional love? My twin flame reacted in all of those ways and I initially thought he was an energy stealer, but that was before I knew anything about twin flames. I put the pieces together and realized why I was so scared of him and why he hurt me so deeply. Just because our souls share the same frequency doesn't mean that we're exactly the same, we're yin and yang right? So isn't it that we are both needing balance? Aren't all of these things we experienced from our twin things we need to learn in order to heal our own emotional blockages, in order to balance our female and masculine energies and experience this love? Lots of questions! Sorry. This is confusing.

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    1. I would have to agree with your comment.. I have the same experience with you and now I'm getting confused about this false twin

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    2. We are both TRUE and FALSE TWIN FLAME.
      The truth is we are all complete, all TRUE TWIN FLAME. We had never been born or died. Just like energy had never been born or disappeared.
      At the same time, as long as we have this bodies to play our roles, we are all still FALSE TWIN FLAME.
      We may experience ourselves as a complete self so at that moment, only at that moment, we are TRUE TWIN FLAME. When we loose that consciousness, we forget. When we forget that we are TRUE, we are FALSE, duality has influenced us.

      Don't be caught up in duality. There is no "right" or "wrong", so there is no "true twin flame" or "false twin flame". They are only one thing. If we "choose" one side either that is true twin flame or false twin flame, we has already trapped into false twin flame. When we are free from those labels, we ARE true twin flame.

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    3. Tony, you are so on the money! Very well said.

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  3. By the way thank you for the eggshell technique! I had never heard of it before, but it's wonderful!

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  4. I have been experiencing this is my relationship. My girlfriend showed me this page,and I had to say, yup, yup,yup. I have other friends in the very same "false flame" relationships as you call them. I call them the dark before the dawn. We are not gonna get anywhere in any relationship if we don't empower ourselves. We won't know what kind of relationship we are in if we don't focus on self and heal self from the old wounds of ego. There is just no other way we are any of us going to create a new earth. Things will not look 3D we know that, so why would we expect a 3d relationship from our twin flame..this is not what they are here for. They are our other half of our wholeness. To expect this to be a romantic journey is not only insidious, it is ridiculous..its a messy business dying to self, especially when your constantly having to look in the mirror and watch yourself do it. I tell my dear sistars to focus on self, stay in now moment, and do not focus on him. Burning bridges will only get you another go around, and no one can steal your energy unless you let them..that is an old wives tale. But you will have an automatic connection with your twins energy, of course you would..after all, its YOU. And if you have been in unhealthy relationships, you will be in the false relationship again, only this time with enough go power to heal, but it takes lots of work! At this point the energy is moving so fast that we can create at a moments notice almost, but only in now moment. We can not worry about finding the "perfect" twin we have to worry about being powerful creators with our relationships and lives, and that takes work..we want to focus on him him him, when we should be taking care of me, me, me and then let the magic happen within that relationship together. As long as ego is brewing and rambling..you can't really understand what is going on..do NOT throw the baby out with the bath water. As Gregg Braden says in the Seven Essene Mirrors,*you can watch this on Youtube and I highly recommend it* when you are done with the relationship, it will be done with you, you will detatch from it with no problems with love. I know I left my husband of 22 years when I met my love,and we have not had one argument, it was time. But now my love and I appear as false flames according to this..that's OKAY..because he is still a beautiful person, and it would litterly KILL me to delete him I have tried, but as I learn to love myself and own my own power (which by the way a TRUE twin flame will insist you do then fight you every moment of it until you do) things are getting better..time will tell..but until then what a great way to work on me! Thanks Allakara

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  5. hi everyone ! I have lived this kind of connection and really believed that he is my twin flame ! He knows a lot of stuff, spiritual ones, but I was feeling so weard... when I have met him, I did not know about apiritual, chakras, nothing....he was like a mentor for me, and was keep saying he knows me and that he feels like I am his twin soul...but I was so dependend on him....felt like no one understands me, but him, and that I totally depend on him. The bright side about this story is that I started to read more about energy and spirituality matters so in time, I got stronger. I have moved to his country...he made me to, influenced me...and in 2 yrs after meeting him and a pause of relation of about 6 months, I have moved to his country...left my job, my family, my all, for him. I could stay inly 1 month in there, with him...I was starting feeling like I can't stand his energy...so had to come back...I am proud of myself, of chosing the right thing to do ! As I came back, he wanted to remain friends, but I have cut the cords, in the Light, and said a big, huge NO ! Since I have said it, all good things had entered my life: a new and very very good job, and a new admirer-friend, spiritual one, that supported me and made me smile, in all this process and time, that was hard for me...
    I think we must be very very careful about this phenomenon ! I believe in TF, but I believe is not normal to feel so dependent on him and so suffocated and isolated from the other people and the entire world ! :)
    Love and Light,
    Cristina.

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  6. I too have experienced this type of mistaken identity so to speak. Unfortunately I met what I thought was my twin flame while married to my soul mate. My marriage has always been strong and loving one so I was not looking for an "affair". Before i knew it - I was elated - I found my twin - it was strong and intense...and nearly made me CRAZY! My obsession with this woman (and I am a woman too) became very overwhelming. In 3 short months I went from a very secure wife and mother with a good job to one where I was constantly online or my phone...looking for every morsle of attention I could get from her. When she wanted to love me...I was loving her back. When she pulled away it would make me panic inside but on the outside I was there...silently and when she would return - I would accept her in the name of unconditional love. I had to walk away from my job when I had a breakdown two months in to the relationship. I only saw negative in my marriage - even began to question my sexuality even though I was still attracted to my husband. She seemed to have this "hold" on me. Then one day it was like a cloud lifted and I could see. I looked around and all of the sudden this person wasn't quite as important as they were just a few days prior. And each and every day it has only gotten better. My marriage is once again on solid ground and this "friend" is at a distance I didn't think possible just months ago. What happened for it to lift? I don't know. I wonder if she will try and return one day in the future when she is drained once again...and for that I am frightened. I also hope that deep down she is a good person and tries to sincerely grown as a person herself and remain faithful to her family. I read this article and thought "Holy Hell!" This read like my life over the last 6 months....

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    1. OMG me tooooo!!! I read this and every other sign my JAW DROPPED.. she did ALL these things… I've been searching and searching for answers as to WHY this person seemed SO perfect for me ,, but was SO ABUSIVE.. and after she saw into my SOUL and knew who i TRULY was and i felt she would NEVER hurt me knowing how much PAIN my Soul carried… She said ''I know your soul, your TRUE self… I will NEVER hurt you'' she looked into my EYES and said ''I would NEVER leave you'' after I woke up CRYING from dreams that she would walk out on me once my energy was completely sucked dry cause i could FEEL thats what she was doing to me.. I KNEW she was an energy vampire but thought this was because of her psychological disorder, I could see she had Narcissistic personality disorder and manic depression and Borderline personality disorder… Like this article said, I kept trying to help her thinking its out of LOVE but I was under control…. I kept telling people i was hypnotised and lost control or sight of WHO I AM when I made eye contact with her so i would avoid looking into her eyes when bumping into her at social events… and Like you I am TERRIFIED of bumping into her so I've been avoiding going to events as we live in London in ENGLAND and there is a rather small enough spiritual community that its SO easy to bump into each other, and I feel maybe people think I'm being DRAMATIC or exaggerating about my fear, but I'm TERRIFIED of bumping into her, because she WILL approach me and try to touch me or get me to look into her eyes, and she's SUPER PSYCHIC, and i feel her soul PULLING me…even when we're not geographically in the same place, so when we are its EVEN HARDER, like this article says.. and like the article also says, they may even be doing it subconsciously, and I always said that she may even be doing it UNCONSCIOUSLY, and I've tried cutting soul ties etc SO MANY TIMES… but i feel by instinct and DEFINITELY after reading this and the steps to eradicate their energy from our lives… that the ONLY WAY is to FULLY step away, and delete from Facebook, and everything, get rid of all her stuff… because she can feel that if i have any energetic links to her, she can keep a hold of me… This dark side of this plane is light literally a NIGHTMARE, I'm sure its where people get their ideas from to create HORROR MOVIES!!! :( :( :( Feel like I LIVED a horror movie the whole of last year LIVING with this person!!!

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  7. This is a most helpful blog! Thank you to the creator of this blog for taking precious time to assist those of us ascending and supporting the now approaching Age of Love. I see that as we ascend faster, we've attracted far too much "egoic love". If it means living/loving solely with the self in complete awareness, then let it be. Otherwise, the purest intent now is to meet at God's chosen time the other "true self" separate from any soulful or even personality-based wrongdoing.

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  8. I have come to realize someone I thought was my twin flame is really a false energy vampire. I have felt drained ever since coming into contact with this person. I've obsessed over this person, we did have a connection but he has little to give in return.

    I've tried to cut this connection, it didn't work. I've prayed. Everything to make it stop.

    What do I do now?? I've surrounded myself with white light, protection and I'm over the illusion this person is my twin flame because of how this person makes me suffer. If this person cared and was my actual twin flame, this person wouldn't want me to suffer like this.

    I'll try engrossing myself in more hobbies...

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  9. HI,

    Im so glad that i found this blog..there is other sites too, but here was good outlooks to this matter..

    im in a twinflame realtionship, been now 1 year 2 months..and its really driving me nuts. im a very intuitive person and i truly know that we are twins, all the numerological calculating matches, few top psychics has confirmed it also (but thats not as important as my inner knowing, our inner kwowing of this matter), our paths are one, we remember some past lives etc. so, this is a real thing. no doubts.

    im just now feeling totally LOST. As my twin(who is a man, im a woman) keeps on getting these really hard anger eruptions. 2-3 times in a month. during our iiving together he has also hurted me physically 4 times. He also is a very sensitive to all energies and also lets the darkest energies into him as well. just yesterday he acted like a devil to me. I also got very mad to him as ive had enough of this physical abusing and these verbal anger eruptions, physical abusing it has only happened 4 times, ie. he has grabbed my hands, yesterday he threw an object at me (heavy book), he calls me names everytime he gets mad, he is very intovert and doesnt tolerate if i say what i want to say, expressing my inner thouhgts..he also gets this suicidal mode when he feel really derpressed, and this is totally eating me badly :(

    but then there is this other side of him, which is the most caring, loving, gentle, spiritual,kind, warm, happy etc. it´s like he would have these 2 personalities??

    and at this point im so tired, im not working as this all is too much, all this awakening to our wider/deeper consciousness has been really hard to me sometimes..at the same time I love him dearly, deeply and I KNOW that we are twins, it is this instant knowing of it..but still something like this happens..

    I also got so mad at him yesterday when i was so full of this madness that i also said stupid things to him and almost hit him, but i pulled my hand away and went to calm down to another room. Sometimes he scares me a lot when he goes to this anger mode and i dont know anymore what to do?

    anyone expereinced the same kinds..

    IM TOTALLLY ALONE with this matter..no one of my family wouldnt understand this matter,,

    id like to move away, find another apartment..but im scared that he will do something to himself or to me, or that our road ends there, as i also love him the ways that words cannot even descripe it?

    ive prayed so many times the answers that i would get that why things are like this, im in the fear mode mostly..not going forward..stuck at home..i have some plans, but those tend to irritate him as well..immeadiately when i start to shine my light, he usually goes nuts..??

    i totally need some advices now..this feels so hard..

    :(

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    1. I think this man has bi polar personality disorder. Please make some research about this illness and ask him to be healed if u are still in a relation with him.
      Good luck.

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    2. Please leave this man before he does you some harm, you cannot continue to grow spiritually while you are allowing this man to disrepect you. Some of these false twin relationships are put here to test us and if we pass the test instead of falling into our old "victim" pattern we receive our spiritual rewards. No person should be treated this way, you are being abused, please seeks some help to leave this person before more damage is done. Peace and good luck.

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    3. Yes, this is NOT what a TWIN FLAME relationship is about… thats the point of this article. When you meet someone who seems PERFECT for you… but is abusing you, they are shadow twins, they are preparing you for your REAL TWIN, the test is only to be passed if you can gather your inner strength, self respect, and self love enough to WALK AWAY, and love yourself FULLY anyway!!! Only then can you open up to meeting another twin flame!!! please… I know its SO HARD, but its SO WORTH it… this only means you are SO CLOSE to finding your real twin!!! You have to be okay with being by yourself first, after having had this connection. xxxx

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  10. I am going to state something here that you need to carefully consider. Just because you feel with everything in you that this man is your twin DOES NOT mean that this connection is beneficial to you at this time - or even in this life time. I have sought counsel over my own disfunctional twin relationship - and it was the HARDEST part to come to terms with. Our twin must be ready to receive us as we are them and if they are not - they can be quite hurtful - even physically. I hated the idea of the idea that she might not be the "one" for me - and I tried to hang on to the relationship because I thought the twin connection meant I should fight for it. But in the end I ended up hurt over and over again - the abuse was just too much. I worked too hard to be where I am spiritually and the more I surround myself with people who also walk in the light - the more agitated she became with me. I know in my heart of hearts - if we had moved in together - I might be facing the same fears as you...but I have to say - nothing is worth your life...no one person. Just because the ego is damaged does not mean anything regarding your soul's twin...that connection is there even if we separate physically and it is always pure love. It is the ego we are to stay safe from if it is damaging to us.

    I hope this made sense. Maybe in another life time we can all "get it right" with our twin...if they are our twin...sometimes it could be a false energy showing up before the real thing to keep us from what we really deserve....

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    1. Thank you <3 We have now divorced, almost 4 months ago..it still feels sometimes that I miss him very much, no matter what he did to me..but I KNOW that if we would meet, he would not accept me as I am..so i have deleted him out of my life, and it has been the most hardest thing that Ive ever done..ive been literally feeling that I am dead..emotionally sometimes..

      I have had to make LOTS of inner work during these months..its been like living hell sometimes..He totally beat me to the ground with his words and doing as we were together almost 2 years..that ive been having hard time to be ME again..it feels that I dont even regognize myself anymore sometimes and Ive been having some deep depression times and thinking that do I have strenght to live on this earth..this makes me cry when I say this, but that is how I feel now..

      Ive met now a new man, luckily, and we have some kind of a soul connection as well, i didnt plan this consciously to go like this, but he has helped me to heal..at this point, I think, he is the only one who keeps me alive at this point..

      I feel strongly for him, I love him as well..but Im still also healing my stuffs from my old "twin" relationship..but this new soulmate or whatever we are, understoods it..

      i just dont know where to go from here..everyday feels like im in a dark tunnel..and i cry a lot..

      <3

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    2. You would have died emotionally and maybe to the point of suicide if you had stayed… so well done!!! congratulations for leaving, and WELL DONE for opening up to someone new!!! I hope to do the same as its only been a month since i pulled myself away from my false twin, there was just NO winning, it was either suicide… or leave… and i chose to leave.. thank GOD!!! YES its true… the false twin is just another obstacle to keep us from what we TRULY DESERVE!!! let them go, and eventually the TRUE TWIN can find you, and it WILL BE HAPPILY EVER AFTER!!!

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  11. Hi everyone,

    I'm really glad I found this blog. It really cleared up some things.

    I had been seeing someone for a very short time. We had an instant attraction. it felt like we had been together for ages. At least so he said... (i'm still not sure)
    After two weeks of being with him I was completely drained. I felt depressed and it felt like my light had dimmed quite a bit. My energy vibrations were very high level before I met him, but after two weeks with him he brought my vibrations down to his level.
    He could be very aggressive in his way of speaking and one minute later sweet and loving like a puppy. like two sides on a coin he could flip and be completely different. I can really relate to some of you.

    I am lucky that our "love" was short lived and that he left right after there was no more energy to steel from me.

    The first night we slept together I couldn't sleep at all next to him. His energy was so toxic. I have never encountered anything like it. Every cell in my body screened RUN! But I was stubborn en didn't listen. I didn't know what to think of it.
    He could't sleep next to me either. When I fall asleep my energy level goes up and I usually get OBE's and very vivid dreams. He had to wait in the living room until I was vast asleep before he could lay next to me. I found this very odd. Now I understand why, it was to much for him.

    Very interesting, looking at the checklist almost every point checks off. Now that I look back at it some missing puzzle peaces all fall into place.

    I do have some questions though...

    1. Can a false twin be a real twin but just a someone who doesn't have a good connection to his of here own soul? Someone who has the same blueprint as you but just isn't ready to meet yet?
    quote:
    "The false energy has not yet mastered within themselves the higher levels of consciousness and self reflection that a true twin has. "

    2. Or can it just be a completely different soul who just pretends to be a twin by mimicking your blueprint?
    quote:
    "The false twin will mirror qualities of a true twins in order to gain the level of control needed to maintain the connection"

    Thank you for this information it really opened my eyes...

    Marina

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    1. good questions..ive been thinking this same..

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    2. I feel it could be either. The LATTER being a more dangerous situation. Which is what I faced… I thought it was the first one and she was not ready… but after reading this, it came to me that it was the second. Thats why i feel some people commenting here are still WITH this false twin, believing possibly in delusion that the relationships ill improve… not sure why anyone would want to put themselves through abuse consciously from belief that they can improve… surely we are all conscious enough here to know that our CREATOR would NOT want us to dishonour ourselves by taking ANY kind of abuse… but I KNOW also from my own situation, that I took more abuse than i ever thought i would… Because this false twin had convinced me and brainwashed me into thinking that we were MEANT to be together and that she would change, change, change… but only got worse the more i fed into the situation out of ''love'' which was sympathy and i was highly manipulated. I feel sorry for some of the people here saying they still believe this person is their twin… they are still in a state of confusion… and the MOST DANGEROUS PART, which is mentioned in the article… is that this relationship can lead to physical illness… or DEATH/SUICIDE. I was suicidal for the WHOLE YEAR from the 1st month after i started sleeping with her… this is NOT a game people, abuse is NOT something that universe or your creator would put you through as a test… you can HEAL your insecurities and weaknesses ALONE, you don't NEED to be in a relationship convincing yourself that this person is there to ''show you what to heal in yourself''… At the end of the day, if this person is NOT improving your life, and the ONLY FEELING keeping you wanting to be involved with them, is the hormones in your brain telling you your in love, or their light side… then this is deep delusion… these people may have EQUAL strength in their dark and light side, but if they are SO out of balance that their dark side/lilith/black moon/shadow side/dark karma is playing out in the relationship… you are not only hurting YOURSELF, you are hurting THEM by entertaining the behaviour, as the ONLY WAY they are going to improve is if they are LEFT ALONE with no1 to use as a punching bag to avoid their own problems… !!! Abandonment is the ONLY cure for them to heal themselves.. some of us have the fear they may kill themselves etc… but… in most cases, this is just their way of manipulating you, and they probably WONT do this, but with regards to this fear that they might, you must remember… what they do is NOT your responsibility, you have a responsibility to YOURSELF to honour, love and respect yourself and protect yourself and walk YOUR path of light, as being with this person is only going to impede on YOUR OWN evolution, hold you back and bring you down… where YOU can't be of assistance and bring light to others for you will be SO drained as I was last year… GET OUT OF IT!!! They will get better, and so will you!!!! and then you can attract your TRUE TWIN!

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  12. One thing I noted carefully ~ and I am sure I have been involved in at false twin relationship for some time, is the fact that I would have done almost anything to make the relationship work. He, on the otherhand, would not. I sacrificed while he did not. I am a very strong independant woman with some degree of success.. I can tell you, I truly thought I had met my soul mate. 100% connection from the first moment we met. His very words were, he was attracted to my energy. In the beginning if we argued I would be an absolute mess.. when that began to ebb, he started with name calling. It has just gone farther and farther down hill. Most recently have been threats of physical violence. Anything to get a reaction and keep me emotionally distraut. How, exactly, this works for him I really don't understand.. but in time perhaps I can do some research. Meanwhile it is good advice not to play into the 'game'.
    Thank you so much for this post!

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  13. and we can always look at outer actions of a person and judge. Some don't like to be told this but for every action in the outer that we draw to us there is always some resonance within us that allows us to receive it. Just cutting out someone from our life because we don't like what they are doing will only leave us attracting someone else doing the same thing until the issue for why we are attracting the behaviour is dealt with.
    A Twin Flame can be acting out and still be our Twin Flame. When we shift our vibration so will they transform because the Twin Flame is the energy double. For a Twin flame to show up with us in balance we have to come into balance ourselves.
    The only way to to do that is to integrate our Soul's blueprint. This creates a marriage of the male and female principles within us as we do so. Are you engaging your Soul to integrate you blueprint? As I have done so my Twin Flame connection has shifted. My energy is no longer siphoned. It does take discipline to achieve this though.

    I am writing a book: "When Our Soul Has Something Else in Mind" about this which includes a chapter on the Twin flame relationship. If you would like to support me in that this is the link to my project page: http://www.indiegogo.com/WhenOurSoul?a=754525

    I have done a podcast interview as well recently for more info:"Finding Your Higher Self". http://www.practicalpodcasting.com/what-are-blueprints-from-the-soul-linda-d-sajiw-author/
    Thanks everyone that finds their way to my site: www.soulsinbloom.com

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    1. Actually the FIRST step is to escape from the volatile and dangerous, hazardous behaviour and person who is abusive. Its not great advice to tell people to shift their energy or integrate their blueprint whilst in an abusive relationship is it? Its not possible, and part of shifting that energy is walking away from someone who is hurting you… And secondly, we CAN heal these parts of us that attracted this person AWAY from them and on our own, and MUCH BETTER on our own than whilst still trying to help these people or deal with their constant abusive treatment. Giving this kind of advice is not going to attract any smart people to your project, and nor would i recommend anyone read your book if you are giving INSANE advice to stay in an abusive relationship with someone… On top of all that… this whole concept is about the IMPOSTER twin… and YES it DOES actually mean that this person is NOT your true twin, as the WHOLE CONCEPT of a true twin flame is about helping each other to RISE, not ripping each other apart. Seriously, think about the advice you are giving. Maybe getting yourself into abusive relationship then believing thats your twin fair enough, but don't also sway others who are already disillusioned and torn between two painful outcomes of leaving… which EVENTUALLY they will feel better from, or staying… and possibly leading to suicide or being killed???

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    2. he hit me once that's his fault, the second time it was mine cause that's what he does and I stayed after the first wack across the head...later I found out his rap sheet with the Police included domestic violence, I wasn't the first!
      GET OUT NOW while your alive and have resources unlike myself at the moment, I've just been evicted as the Fake Fool stole my money, my massaging career, BUT NOT MY LIFE...
      LOVE YOURSELF NOT THE FAKE TF FOOL...

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  14. Oh My God. I am currently recovering from meeting a false twin. your checklist is about 95%. I am floored. My intuition told me in the beginning it was a bad idea to get involved with her. I even prayed on my knees before our "friendship" to remove my sickly obsession over her. She chewed me up and spit me out alive. It's 10 months later and I'm still feeling the hurt. I am closer to lettingher go for good. I pray she never comes back.

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    1. Exactly. I knew my one was crazy and disturbed when i met her. And i just gave in and in… bad situation. I'm SO glad to be free of her.. thank GOD and thank goodness for this article… slapping me away! I was FLOORED with my Jaw wide open too… no1 understood and some didn't believe me and defended her as we had mutual social network.. then this article describes in DETAIL every thing she said and did… terrifying like a nightmare! I'm hoping I can do loads of healing and heal quicker than 10 months though, I also advise you find a healer or two to work with, energy healing, transpersonal therapy… do something to let go of the energy!

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    2. You seem to be someone that likes to stir up gossip. I met my twin flame. The explanation for the "bipolar" attitude is because you sense the others emotions and sometimes confuse them for your own. I don't think your TF and my behavior is much different. They are your equal opposite yet the same.
      Either you see yourself in their eyes and have the same demeanor and similar traits or you don't. When one meets their TF, they will know. I was a runner and a chaser but mostly ran. Something else to think about, is their behavior an action you would choose IF the roles were reversed and the other TF was acting as you? That is a key thing to ponder.

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  15. I've met my twin flame. They found me in what I feel is a magical story. I feel a calling to protect them as nothing I have ever felt, even for my own children. There is also a very strong calling to assist in their spiritual development. They have been in an abusive physical and sexual relationship with a false twin. The false twin continues to haunt them. They don't understand what needs to be done. The false is not a friend, they are a psychic vampire. I've seen this in action, my twin is drained. The false twin does all the above, and wants a piece of ass on the side too. My twin flame still wants them in their life as a friend, but from what I have discovered this is not friendship. This is abuse and control. The false claims to be a Christian, but is far from it. My twin flame wants to move away to get away from them. That will happen, just not yet. There is a connection between my twin flame and me that is amazing to me. They are in my dreams every night since we first met. I have had dreams of them from over 30 years ago. I knew what they looked like and have always had them as my ideal mate. I was floored when we first met. There was an attraction like I had never known, way beyond physical.

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    1. Congratulations. Your twin is also SO blessed to have you… so you can help them move away and disconnect from the other twin. I would feel as well that if your twin truly wanted to make the relationship work with you… they would completely let the other false twin go… as this would only cause disruption. Out of respect for your relationship, they should cut the false twin who is only dangerous off.

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  16. I would like to do cleansing rituals to rid my twin from their false twin. I too battled my false twin who pretty much took me for all I was worth and put everything I had planned into the trash. I had lost most hope until I met my twin flame. I was guided to them by a soul mate that then left my life. We have a long way in developing but we have become very close friends and they sense there is something because we are so much alike, even life events. However, until the negative bonds of the false twin are severed I know we can not proceed with the twin flame bond. It will take time and patience, hope and love. My twin is my sword and I am their shield. We moved too fast before it was time and that for a while broke us apart and the false twin tried to move back into the picture. We were even engaged once. Something has kept us together beyond friendship. Like me there are good and bad memories associated with our false twins. They don't understand that they need to totally let go of them forever. Their false twin continues to bully their way back into their life and it is causing problems for my twin flame. The dude is evil even if he goes to church. I shook his hand once and I could feel the dark evil inside him. Then I had a nightmare he killed my twin flame. It seemed too real; he is capable of great violence and fits of rage. He has sent my twin to the hospital from his brutality. I fear that if he ever hurts her again I will become an avenger. I hope they realize that I am willing to take the false twin down along with myself in a heart beat in defense of my twin flame. It scares me because I was once trained in such things; it is hard not to go by relax action. I nearly slipped once with a step-son who punched his sister in the face and that haunts me. Thankfully a light came on at the last millisecond as I was that close to snapping his neck and had already had an excuse that he fell down the stairs. There is a mission that is yet to be revealed that we twins are on. For 35 years I thought it was to be on the field of Megiddo in the last battle. I have been on a mystical journey that is too unreal for many to believe or understand. Now I believe it is my twin's mission that is more important as it has become mine. We are co-creators, equals in every sense. I have forsaken all others because there can really be only one. No one has ever made me feel this way; Courtly Love is one way to describe it. Even if I never see my twin again, they have had such a profound effect on me I will always serve their cause. It has never happened before and this late in life could never happen again. I read something today I wrote a few years ago and now it makes total sense now that I met my twin flame. She is my sword, she is my strength; I am her shield, I am her strength.

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    1. Congratulations :) well done for getting there!

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  17. Hello, I know this is well over a year old, but I was hoping to have one of my questions answered: Does the false twin take energy unconsciously?

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    1. Its unconscious or subconscious… they are not aware of what they are doing, or they are aware and don't know how to stop. I don't feel anyone could do this type of evil consciously, because once we are conscious fully, we can not hurt others… but regardless of that, thinking that we can help them become conscious or change, will not work, they have to either come across it alone… maybe it may take up to 20 years… or they might not even realise at ALL this life time. Which is why we have to step away and focus on what OUR lesson is in the picture, not theirs!

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  18. I have been in a twin flame relationship since May 2012. Wasn't aware of this false flame idea until today, having stumbled accross it online. Sounds just like my guy...
    In the first month I found myself swimming daily, as if trying to escape from a horrible energy. It is not that intense now, but flares up from time to time. As I have cleared and healed myself of longstanding wounds that this relationship has bought up, things have become easier and less distressful.
    Nevertheless, I have noticed a pattern. My guy will try to rattle me and wind me up in new ways....I think just to get a response from me. Yet he can be kind and loving. Meanwhile I am thinking, what the hell is going on here? What is the point? Life is too short. When love is given to 2 people like this, what is the point of hurting one another? Why destroy this love? I am learning to deal with his behaviour in a way which does not involve me shouting or getting angry. But then he will find something else. It is his way of getting my energy. In the meantime, I am more adept at handling it. The outside world of work and friendships has become far easier. All my life I have given a lot to other people and not got much in return. All my life I have not been valued much by others. My twin has magnified all of this. I am more aware of how I use my energy...
    But as I have become stronger spiritually, the twin relationship has gone down the pan. I thought it was gradually improving, but by Dec 2012 and now Jan 2013, as I really grew spiritually, it has become too hard to sustain. I am scared that he is trying to kill my heart. It is just one challenge to much and so I am taking time now to be on my own and get on with my life. Whenever I have left him before, I have always gone back, but now enough is enough. I would do anything for us to have a loving relationship, but now it seems impossible. He denies he ever does anything negative, so we can't even talk about anything. I will just deal with whatever happens but it is hard to imagine never seeing him again. He is a massive drain on my energy this new year, but I will not allow this to last long. I bounce back and get on....I just wish that I could have a more loving version of my twin flame, holding me in his arms, instead of being so alone.I pray all the time that if God has sent me this beautiful man, why not send me the best version. It is cruel to have a taste of this, just a taste of heaven, for it then to not work out.

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    1. I've been there too, I allowed an unhealthy relationship to continue though I felt better when I broke away, I allowed things to resume out of pity and compassion. However having finally broken my emotional attachment I then went on miraculously to meet my genuine twin flame and it is never bad, completely equal and now makes everything else make sense. Stay away and cleanse yourself if you can because there is more out there i promise xx

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  19. Yes it true that if we use our intuition properly, we'll not fall into the trap of the false TF. I think I'm one of the rare person on this planet to not have become prey to this connection. HAHHAHAHHAHAHA... I'm lucky.
    And MORE: False TF try to make you fall into the 3D illusion while the true TF make you ascend.

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    1. Whats the point in laughing? One: its just not funny. and Two: you could still go through it, but yes its true… that one important thing is that the false twin brings you into money, greed, fame, status.. and very 3D illusions… whilst the true twin will help you see OUT of it!

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  20. I think this is true to a degree however I think some false twins are not aware they are doing this, this has been my experience. I spent a whole year living this and you know I think sometimes our false twins are destined because their behaviour makes you do a lot of work on yourself. Right at the end of the year literally my false twin and I separated because I called him on his behaviour and this time he had no excuses to hide behind. He got so angry when I confronted him he blocked me from everywhere and then finally told me he could not handle the BS. Interesting this was after I managed to get him on a very popular radio show and this was going to be his shot at glory aso in his mind he didn't need me anymore (and that is a big clue about the false twin, they have not evolved to come from the heart, they only exist in the mental and the ego)...anyway what I am trying to say is that everything happens for a reason, there are no mistakes and if you are walking your destined path you are protected anyway. Even though it was a tumultuous year full of heartache and pain I have grown so much and become a better person because of it. I actually wish him well and thank him for the experience. Peace :)

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    1. Very true! it IS destined and we only attract it/agreed to it before incarnation, because its what challenges us, and we will only come to it IF we can handle it and we will only take as much as we can handle. Its a way for us to die and rebirth as someone new, and this new person will be one step closer to the TRUE TWIN! and I spent a WHOLE YEAR too… just got out a month ago!!! Good for you that you seem you are on a clear path and aware of light, yes we are protected, sometimes we have to go down the path of the lilith as it says in astrology to explore our dark karma with someone, also they explore their dark karma, but when time comes, we can go our separate ways and follow the path of light again!

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  21. I met someone once that was already involved and didn't like him then but we were good friends. He, on the other hand told me he liked me. When his gf left home couple of months later, cause she lives in a different country, we became closer and i started to feel something for me and I believe his feelings for me became even stronger than before. so we were together and it was really great when I was with him but sometimes I would have this feeling that this is all wrong, this can't be, he's with someone else and is only fooling me around. Then I left too back to my country and we fought and haven't heard of each other for almost a year until one day we talked again and told me he still loves me but is now engaged and doesn't know what to do but would then disappear and reappear and it all confuses me. I'm not sure what our relationship is but with him I really felt as with no one else before and he's become so bad now, depressed and sick and I try to help him but he pushes me away. I'm so sad. :( I thought he was my twin flame one but i guess it wasn't so. He's someone twin and I haven't found mine yet. I'm really confused and wonder what this is. This is all so weird. Any suggestions?

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    1. If he is with someone else, i feel thats a clear sign he is not choosing you.

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  22. I have known my true twin flame for going on six years now, and I feel the time is nigh (after years of growth) for us to join in our mission, however, I have been under psychic attack from karmic soul mates who have not done sufficient inner work and I just recently had an overwhelming experience that felt like my I was seeing my life flash before my eyes. I met my TF's false twin. She looks like me and "seems" spiritual in that she is a yoga instructor, but it is clear she is not into the "yoga" (which means union - referring to the union we can achieve with our creator), but is in it for the physical aspects of ego and body consciousness. She is very superficial and does not seem happy or have joy. She even admits like one who may complain of dandruff, that she has an entity who is obsessed with her at her feet. Through energy reading I realize this entity never left her when she asked it in a weak manner to leave her years ago. All of the sudden she seemed very interested in me. I am so open to giving and receiving unconditional love, I let her into my energy field slightly, until the other night, she stole a personal item I have been wearing for almost 20 years. I feel that this person is aware of what she is doing and is attempting to gather my high spiritual energy for herself in a most despicable way, by stealing it. I give kudos to the maker of this blog, because you understand the truth. It was most helpful to come here to read the lists you posted regarding this phenomenon. I pray my TF will have the spiritual wherewithal to withstand what I see as incredible temptation and falsity of the lowest order. Yes, kudos too - to the person who mentioned that the true twin will assist in ascension while the false twin will attempt to enmesh one in the world and ego (3D illusion). There is a battle for our souls, kids. Please pray for the true unions of twin flames everywhere as this is unto the edification of us all and unto the glory of God through our saviour Jesus Christ. The battle between good and evil verily exists!! Fight the GOOD fight, my TF brethren!

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    1. Thank you For seeing!!! Yes this article was SPOT ON. Its a very serious situation, these people are sociopaths… perhaps that is the only reason they have incarnated, and we should all stay away from them. This woman sounds like my FT as well, she was into nutrition, raw food, and yoga… but complains about her weight and seems overly interested in fame, popularity, status, and was always jealous of me, so used me to make herself popular… while encouraging me to stay in her shadow, taking my limelight/my light etc… i am very out going by nature, people love me, but after a year with her, i felt i didn't exist… i was shy, afraid of showing myself, my gifts, and she blamed me saying i had a choice to hide myself, but OBVIOUSLY she's the one who did it….. she's very passive aggressive, thats why I LOVE this article because it STATES CLEARLY… ways they may abuse without direct abuse… for instance ''They may disappear or show no real excitement when you accomplish something'' SHE WAS SO LIKE THAT!!! It creates a subconscious teaching in the true twin, that they should not bother accomplishing things and focus on helping the FT accomplish MORE. She also would encourage me to go out and be sociable, when I knew she didn't mean it, but would do it anyway as she insisted… but upon returning home and telling her how happy i was and that i had a good time, she became angry and irritable and have no real reason to explain why… and i eventually got the message, she didn't really want me to go out and have a good time without her… so not only did she not want to go out with me, to things i liked… but she also didn't want me to go out and have a good time… she didn't mind however, me accompanying HER to events SHE wanted to go to, but pretty much acted as if she didn't care either way… she barely noticed me there, and talked to everyone else. And when i asked about why, she would say because she didn't ask me to come, I came to be with her, but that didn't mean anything to her… she would act as though i was a burden to her engaging with others… and holding her back.. etc.. she would always say i was holding her back, and i wasn't her ideal partner, but if i left… she would say i should come back so we can work on it… making me feel never good enough or worthy… and like i couldn't never do anything right for her… but yet, she would say she felt i was always criticising her and making her feel as though she could never do anything right for me… this woman was a complete PSYCHO!!!

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  23. Namaste

    I feel I have fallen to this as well, someone who may have been syphoning off me. He always seem to turn up and when I asked the universe to go and meet this guy, I couldn't go!

    Universe helllpppppppp!!!

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  24. Too easy to confuse people, its not that there are false twins it is just that people make mistakes. Our true twin will only reveal when our SOULS say so not at the moment of our shoosing - if we all learn to just accept ourselves and what IS, we can step back from our ego presumptions and just work on being alignment with ourselves. Once we are balanced in our inner selves enough our Twin will respond by appearing / coming forward. the love will always be noticeable from them even when the energy is icky - but you have to be tuned in enough to notice it - if your own stuff is in the way you will just project out your energy onto your twin who reflects it back intensified. It is a process. Good luck to all on this journey - I know it can be hard, and a deep personal upturning of everything we thought we knew. :) x

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    1. Its dangerous to say this doesn't exist, when it does and is very real for MANY people. Just because you haven't experienced this to dismiss the whole concept is taking away from a TRUTH that many people experience. Yes, false twins do exist… yes true twins do exist… I would reserve comments on what you have yet to experience. Years of mental and emotional torture… is NOT someone making a mistake… these are VERY intense situations NOT to be belittled…

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    2. And I would like to add...this is SPIRITUAL WARFARE and not to be taken lightly...I am on a ASCENSION PATH he was there to take me out taking advantage of my desire to Love Unconditionally and forgive...all good things just not with our Devil incarnate...hard words perhaps, tho I don't apologise, i've lived this and lost much, however I gained the most...he's moved to the next soft soul I've found a real TF to work with as a team...awesome advice here

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  25. This is just sooooooooooo................ damn confusing! :(
    I just wish people don't do this!
    Overall, I believe there is NO such thing as False Twin, just bad choice of partner.
    BCOZ IT CAN'T BE TWIN, IF IT IS FALSE!!!!!!
    Now that makes me happy. :)

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  26. All the signs that are posted here for False Twin sounds like "2 people really in love and are afraid of losing each other."

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  27. Cheers to all broken hearted.

    This poem dedicates to them.

    I didn't want to give my heart, but it seems like you have stolen it.

    I am not in love yet, but it seems like I have already fallen.

    I need my heart back,

    And I need to stand up, to care for this precious life that God has given me.

    Looks like most of the people likes to live in a dreamland, an oasis that one will never find.

    So far, I haven't found any one who have met their TF/SM/TS and are happily living ever after!

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    1. I have met many twin flame couples that are beautiful for years and years have been going strong. But also this False twin does exist as you can see from many comments here.

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  28. Very interesting article indeed. Never came across the concept of "False Twins" until I read your blog entry. Thank you!

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  29. had a dream of meeting a man around 11/2012, the dream had a sacred person that looked very tall that brought him to me and he took my hand and I felt very secured with him. After the dream all I wanted to do is to find this person, which I did from a picture I got 02/2013 that this person is looking for a wife. It was a happy wow factor for me. the first week we spoke I saw his name on the sides of vehicles and as i open the internet thru advertisements so I figure this si a sign. I investigated this and conclude he is a twinflame and was expecting all the beauty bliss and love upon meeting hin on 05/24/13. I even kept seeing 1111 everywhere since the connection was made even in the first minute of our meeting. We became close and in the night I felt something or a being of some sort came over me from him. Our bodies became little weird earlier that night like it was doing something on its own from his to mine. I spend the last night with him on 06/09/13. He was actually mean to me and picked on simple things and turned them major. He decided we should end everything. I nsturally felt drained by him in so much that I had to google this outcome and found he maybe a energy vampire or he was being used for this purpose by whomever some how . I actually layed flat on the bed and told him my energy drained and emotionally I was at a lost. We had texted back and forth since 02/2013 up to our first meeting 05/24 Everything adds up from the magnetic urge to text phone calls 1111 appearances,our names are similiar we even look a like. I am a first born he is also, even the day of meeting adds up to 11 which I was told is usually when twinflames meet. I left him 06/09 and today 06/10 I already I had to see 2 priests and a therapist. He kept popping into my mind and the magnetic attraction still ther but now with so much pain of not having him, the good side of him. One last note is that on our last day together we experience 3 paranormal activity. the scariest is that something was in the room with us to the point where he had to get out a flashlight to look for whatever it was with no luck. I saw the 1111 everywhere before meeting him while i am with him and now I have to wsit and see if it will continue now that we are apart. I would like to take this as a big joke and try to live normal but its now involvig weekly therapist. I also do not know if this is my true blissful twinflame an dthe reason for my sad outcome is that I or he is not ready s yet hence all his craziness.

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    1. Scary shit ! Yes, often with False twins, all these paranormal things happen of equal intensity as would with real twin, but its all BAD stuff… with the true twin, you would both attract only light and love… and thats just the truth!

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  30. For a year and 9 months I was convinced I had met my twinflame. We connected immediately after being introduced under unusual circumstances. The magnetic attraction was so intense and I couldn't stop thinking about him. We texted a lot n saw each other and I dreamed of a future with him.I began seeing 1111 5 years ago and found out his oldest son had died at that time. Our birthdays are 4 days apart and his numbers equal 11 and mine equal 12. I was convinced he was mine I even told him someday he's mine. Now Im not so convinced, our relationship has only gone so far, he doesn't tell me anything about his life,I tell him everything. Hes only introduced me to one friend the entire time, and I give n he takes but there is missing pieces to his puzzle and lack of honesty on his part. I really have tried to get him to trust me and probably tried to hard to get him to love me the way I love him, just when I think he does he splits then when I think Im done he shows up again leads me on and I fall back into the trap. Now I believe he is a false twin. I was so sad but not anymore since I realize now that this was to prepare me for the true Love I crave so much. I guess this was a test run and Im ok with that. knowing my true twin flame is just around the corner. There was nothing I could do to feel an emptiness n void that he left me with. I put a lot of time effort and energy in this relationship but like I said there was just something major missing.,

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    1. When you fill that emptiness with your love for yourself, you will attract your true twin!!! :) your right, this is one of the obstacles that comes to challenge us… when we get out of it, we are ONE STEP CLOSER to meeting our TRUE TWIN!!!

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  31. Hi everyone I'm happy to be experiencing this as even when we have ended it he continues to be in my thoughts every moment of my days and its been almost 6 months already. Now I'm not surr if he's real twin or fake, all I know is he treated me very cold like I have no feelings while I kept loving him anyway. Honestly 6 months and my whole existence craves him still. It ain't easy to break away guys and it hurts me like nothing I've ever felt before and I had gotten a finger smashed till the nail was inside the flesh. I pray so often for relief as some days the feeling gets heightened and unbearable. I cried almost everyday a little and I must get through my day as I'm supportinh myself and must concentrate. I figure hes a psychopath at first or bipolar or just never had an ounce of love for me while all along I have been so strongly drawn to loving him and still cannot change a thing. It is much better now that I changed my routines a little. All I wanted is to have true love for me finally and now im in so much pain no words can explain the anquish of my heart. I met other men but i still cannot get him out of my mind or heart. Time heals so I am now waiting for my time to be free.

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  33. This really hit when I read it. It does seem a bit confusing. I have read about both twin and now false flames... In my circumstance he fell under both... I have seen both his good heart and his shadow. But for the time being and all that's been done, I had to cut the cords. He needs to heal and come out of his darkness before we are to unite again. His negative energy was literally making me sick. Whatever is of Gods will. I know both he and I needed lessons learned. And feel we both need each other in helping each other heal. But only time will tell.

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    1. You don't need him, trust me. You don't need anyone, but the right people will come to you… none of them you NEED, but they can help, you can help yourself and others can help you. There is no such thing as ONE twin, there are many true twins, if one resists, another will manifest.. there is free will, sometimes, true twins are not ready… and they choose to run, they won't abuse you, but will choose to run… the ones who HURT us consistently are FALSE/IMPOSTER/SHADOW twins.. not to be confused, as they are very dangerous tests.

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  34. Well to all seeking some relief or release from the draining seriously hurtful treatment from your supposed to be twin, try Welches grape juice not cocktail and or chocolate that you enjoy and love. Strangely I had plenty of this and it seemed to help, amongst other things to soothe the lost such as reading spending time with friends. You lost an idea of the love of your life that was created of the person we call twin and is not real hence we are in uttermost shock and trying to make sense of it and trying to reason why or how he or she could do this to me. He or she did not do anything to us but probably think we are crazy, just listen to all this. It is actually something out of star trek or stargate sg1 lol.

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    1. Actually, in this case often.. THEY are also believing in twin flame, hence why a lot of people fall for it more as THEY believe they are your twin and try to convince YOU.. when most of us know what a true twin is… and yes they do exist. You just need to research more and be more open to the world of metaphysical connection and beyond the movies you name.

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  35. I heard my twin has not been doing good since we split almost 6 months ago. He is the runner because I wanted him and he was too easy to let go resulting in me suffering a feeling of dreadful lost for something that cannot be replaced so I chased for a little then made a solid confirmation to myself not to anymore after a month after the split. My mind kept remembering him every single day even as soon as I woke up in the mornings and through out the whole day but my heart is released from that burning desire snf feeling of emptiness and what I'm left with is the constant replay of him in my thoughts. I even ask my mind to stop it but that did not work, I had to try something. Well back to him now, he is mostly locked away into his house not having any friends or family around even ignore his child/children whenever he can, he is now ad a hermit but a super sexy and handsome one.He is also broke and if we were together he would not be but for all the riches of the world and a woman who is relatively beautiful and with maximum love for him, he still choose to run. So now some family members of his thinking he might be loosing his mind or he is under some spell. As far as I know he is alone and I am also and yet still he runs away from me who has been sweet kind loving to him. The question is was he crazy from the start or did it just happened since we met. I must include no matter what, I seem to want to feel him and have him next to me. My love for him is still strong but he actually blasted me before the running hence I'm

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  36. http://www.lipstickmystic.com/about-walk-ins-and-also-twin-flames/

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  37. With mine, it was HORRENDOUS. It started out… on ONE side seeming SO PERFECT, that I thought the other side was just duality.. and that if I wanted the light side, I had to work on the dark side to bring balance. But since then, everything went downhill. she did EVERYTHING on this list… and took the absolute PISS with my life. She would promise things, and break the promise the NEXT DAY. So many times, she even said even SHE wouldn't go out with her in a million years, but yet… kept saying how much she appreciated me for staying with her… that i stayed and stayed… got manipulated and guilt trips and pity and sympathy… kept saying she was going to kill herself, and OMG… made my life HELL, treated me like SHIT, I helped her with her business and to organise a whole festival and then at the end, she did a public thank you and didn't even MENTION me… at the beginning she gave a small thank you and fucking just said ''thanks to the two special women in my life'' …which was her assistant, and me -____-, she destroyed me on EVERY level… like the article said, she NEEDED physical closeness to connect and couldn't connect on deeper levels, so she cuddled me to sleep DRAINING ME…and then distanced herself, she NEVER OPENED UP and PRESSURED ME to tell her EVERYTHING i was feeling ALL the time, so she could be in the know, I felt she was embarrassed of me around her friends, and her family… and she would deny it but treat me badly around them, and I was thinking what the fuck am I here for… So many other girls would be SO PROUD to have someone like me, I give EVERYTHING, I was like the PERFECT boyfriend (Im an androgen so i say boyfriend but born female just feel like a boy inside!)… anyway… we had so many past lives together, she read my SOUL, she kept saying we had such a deep soul connection that she would never leave, but then broke up with me for NO REASON… and then ten days later after i had moved out… said she wanted me back… she's a FUCKING EVIL DARK BEING!!! I read on the lilith in astrology… and from that chart, it seems she was completely taken over by her dark karma/black moon/lilith… she was EVERYTHING that her dark side is… pathological LIAR, narcissist, just psycho, complete SOCIOPATH!!! …. I ignored all the signs at first that she was crazy even though i saw them… i let her suck me into her DELUSION of ''together forever'' and how ''special our connection is'' … but then was ALWAYS CONFUSED as to WHY she would treat me so COLD and neglect me EVERYTIME i had NO ENERGY left, she would ignore me, go out to meet other people… tell me i was unstable, when i was only unstable CAUSE OF HER. I was SUPER CONFIDENT and out going before i met her, SUPER LIVELY, then after a YEAR living with her, I was MISERABLE, and then she tells me she can't deal with my issues, and i need professional HELP.. but obviously SHE needs it more than I do! She was TRUE EVIL! Like, someone mentioned… TRUE TWINS help you ascend and see beyond 3d reality, she SUCKED me WAY into 3d reality, she was a SLAVE to her ego, status, money, fame, popularity is what drove her… Like this article said, at first they seem perfect like they have the same experiences, goals, dreams, desires, interests as you, but its just a FRONT.

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  38. She said she wants to help people and be a healer, run events to help raise consciousness, but HER consciousness is SO LOWWWW… and really what drives her to want to step on stage and be a public speaker and ''help people'' is because she looks up to people like TONY ROBBINS and wants to be like them, not to help people because first otherwise she would be HELPING HERSELF and those AROUND HER, not DESTROYING those closest to her, then saying she wants to help other people who don't know her?? Her first aim is because she wants the FAME like Tony robbins and thats her MAIN goal… I can't even BELIEVE that I met someone in the spiritual community who is THIS DELUSIONAL and DISTORTED. and whats worse is… like this article says… In public they can beam this FALSE LIGHT, and she comes across like this really SWEET, INNOCENT, SHY girl who is caring and generous… then behind closed doors, she turns into a MONSTER, SO PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE!!! and FAKE… I promise Im going to expose her to everyone, most people didn't want to believe me, because they maybe thought i was just resentment and trying to make her look bad, but fuck them, they will learn in their own time…. But it made me question myself SO MUCH, that maybe i am exaggerating things or imagining them in my mind :/ :/ :/ thank GOD i found this article… because my JAW DROPPED when reading it… she did EVERYTHING on the list… but what a SHAME to see people on the comments still saying they think this person who is ABUSING THEM is their twin who ''needs work'' COME ON, SNAP OUT OF IT!!!!!!

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  39. IMPORTANT QUOTES: ''The False twin does NOT want to make peace with you!'' - Meaning, you can NOT be friends.

    '' They will spiritually try to destroy what the true twin has worked dilegently to heal while at the same time wearing a mask of light in the outer world. '' - EXACTLY.. everyone else usually thinks they're amazing, charming, sweet, kind, gentle. With mine, NO-ONE believed me or found it hard… or believed me but wanted to still be friends with her as they saw a different side to her. It's HORRIBLE!!! to be in this situation ALONE and ALL our friends thought i was crazy or making it up!!!
    ''The false twin can go undetected until they come across someone with knowledge of their game plan or someone who is highly sensitive to energies.'' - Even some of my most psychic friends couldn't see through her… Only ONE could!!! And i don't know if even she fully saw through her, she just saw that her energy was TROUBLE and told me to cut her out!!! BE AWARE!!! You will only attract someone like this, if YOU are open enough that you can sense it, and 2) you can get away from it, YOU HAVE THE STRENGTH, WALK AWAY!!!

    ''False Twins can strengthen themselves energetically at the expense of a true twins life. Which would manifest outwardly as illness, job loss, depression, even death.'' - This is NOT a GAME people! Get OUT OF IT!!!!

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  40. I thought I had met and married my soul mate, we had a connection, albeit he controlled and I did as I was told, I quickly learned what and what not to do or say. My attitude was for better /worse, I had made my bed so I had to lie in it. At the 10th year of this marriage I met another man who spun me right around, our eyes met and that was it we locked, he inspired and terrified me at the same time I could not believe that I could be affected by another in such an extreme way - I could not shut up about him, consequently my husband (at the time) witnessed this meeting and immediately took a very defensive attitude - suffice to say to make a long story short, I spent the next 5 yrs trying to deny any feelings I had for this new man and tried to work on an already dead marriage.
    The new man P and I never spoke about how we felt for each other, we didnt need too our eyes said it all, over time it became obvious we had a telepathy, he knew when I had taken a whack from my ex without saying a word, he came up to me and put his arm around me as to say "I will look after you" my ex even had the decency to look guilty at the time.
    One night whilst still married to my ex, I was almost asleep and P visited me in my mind, I had been smoking a joint (apologies for lowering the tone), but he said "hello" I was a little apprehensive and unsure who I was hearing, he said who he was and I was blown away, he then went on to tell me that we would be together one day and made me promise to wait for him, so I promised. I woke up the next morning and had completely forgotten we had the conversation. Several years later I finally found the courage to leave my ex. About 18mths after leaving the husband, I was meditating and the conversation P and I had had came back to me, I made contact with him to say I was now single and we met up a few times, as far as I was concerned nothing had changed between us, he told me he was working abroad and that I will begin to think he is not coming back, well here I am 12 yrs on and I am still waiting for him.............Would love your theory on this one, I am a woman of my word I promised to wait, but then logic pops in and says get a grip woman if he loved you like he said (he did tell me once over the phone) then he would be hear by now, move on stop wasting your life on him.
    I feel I should explain that this man P makes me want to be a better person, when in his company there is no one else in the room (even if it is full) his hand melts into my hip just by placing his hand on my hip, I cannot stop staring at him and I speak from my heart impulsively, even if I disagree with him, I give him short sharp shrift like no other, and having spent most of my life lying for survival, to him I cannot lie. I have spent the last 12 years working on myself, internally and have raked up a lot of abuse I suffered as a child and through meditation I am now in a good place, my only problem is not having P in my life. Part of me says that if nothing else P coming into my life was a godsend and he highlighted all that was wrong with the marriage I was in, so getting out of it and moving on from that is what should of happened, P was never meant to be mine, he just showed me the light, but that thought makes me cry :) I love this man like no other - Soooo??? any false twin stuff going on here? I think that is what I am asking

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  41. This makes no sense. I read twin flames and go through hard times or difficulties because the other is't quite ready spiritually yet. This whole false twin flame thing is just that your in a bad relationship where your doing all the giving and the other is taking . i don't think there really is a so called fake twin flame . Most bad relationships that end like that is usually one person manipulating the other because they are insecure and need to be needed even while they are treating others bad . You always want what you can't have so when your finally over the jerk and they see it ,of course they want you back . I think the whole false twin flame thing isn't true .

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  42. I have no one to help me figure this out and im still searching for the truth. I cannot get him out of my mind anf I've known him under a month. I really dont believe in false twin as I can't see the purpose the creator/source would require a real and a false twin. My runner/real twin or possibly false is a good man who takes care of his family and works hard to help others, he is like myself, not perfect and not because the relationship/union turned out differently does not make anyone at fault or evil. If the time of meeting is wrong then go promptly away from it, if he/she is causing you pain please stay away. I care for him and I'm even convinced that I love him therefore I will support his wishes with love and respect. We are in two different countries with no idea if we'll ever see each other again and eventhough our parting was very bitter I can never forget him. False or real I love him

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  43. Although this false flame reading is somewhat confusing to my human nature.. I have but ONE question. Do you feel that you could poetentially experience some of these false flame symptoms if your TRUE flame is experiencing them?

    Now, I know my TRUE flame because at very young age I was informed of her by a palmist that lived across the street from a childhood friend.. Of course at that this age I had no clue who or what he was trying to tell me, I just knew this particular message was important in the way he repeated himself. There have even been times during my life where other physical messages were sent to me, way before my awakening, which at the time I never understood till now but, they all pointed in the same direction.

    Anyways, I very recently vowed to God that I would protect her, in anyway I could, during our times of separation. &naturally since I am older than her I am much wiser but, she is definitely more evolved spiritually. She has a lot of positive, powerful, energy and I feel a lot of people find her very tempting to feed off of. So, I made a vow to protect her and coincidentally there seems to be an energy leech in the picture that drove her to travel far from her home. Mind you, as well, my spiritual journey is quite new because I was in denial for the longest given the situation, it seemed as though I was dreaming. At the beginning of my journey it felt like a clip from iRobot lol.. I was on the fast track and every question I asked was the correct answer. I received many synchronized messages at the time which eventually died down greatly and the questions stop coming the more conscious I became. Until, tonight at 5:55am I was revealed to the topic on FALSE TWIN FLAMES.

    Coincidentally, ever since she has broke away from this energy leech I have experienced a few unfortunate events myself which have hindered me but, they are so petty to me and they are nothing I can't bounce back from. NOW, if any sprout of unfortunate events were to happen to her they could be detrimental to her life's work. Assuming, that the effect would be equal to what you have because it could do no greater than what's on your plate, right? I mean.. where I greatly lack in direction she has been swimming in at an early age. &since I am strongly controlled by destiny and the fact that I love her unconditionally I am 100% ok with having the hard knock life.

    &if any of you were wondering.. I don't have a relationship with a FALSE twin. The only relationship I have is with my creator, my family, &my TRUE twin flame. I have had enough karmic relationships to last me a life time and I'm so over that sh*t lol (:

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  44. What would be the purpose of a false twin? Does the false twin has a false twin companion that he or she is hoping to find one day? The twin flame reunion is each different and can be one of the greatest challenge to face therefore can be seen as the most horrific experience and we may result in viewing the twin as an evil false twin. I decided its best to guard oneself from pain and trouble and walk away while treating the experience with love respect and understanding no matter how tough it is to do. If that love is true it will return to you and be better

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    1. I'm not sure about guarding yourself from truly feeling your feelings? I do believe that at some point you have to let go even though it may be the most difficult part of the whole process. I believe it is essential to continue living your life.

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  45. Amazing! I loved this article and the ensuing comments. They answered many unresolved questions. Thank you all and good luck on our journeys :) xo

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  47. Thank you for sharing the link to the Eegshell Technique Meditation - I hope it has been helpful for you! The link to it has changed,,, here is the updated link... Love, Starlene <3

    http://rocksandreiki.com/reiki-info/healing-guided-meditaitons/the-eggshell-technique-guided-meditation/

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